How To Get A Straight Girl To Fall In Love With You

Of all the questions I get from my ~lovely~ lesbian readers, there are two that get the most attention.1) How do I get over someone who’s good in bed? And 2) I’m in love with a straight girl… what the hell am I supposed to do? Read: How to get a straight girl to love you in a sack, I think it’s time to dive into the straight girl lover’s curse. (Again.) First of all, if you’re into a straight girl, I’ll tell you straight. After all, you get what you put out there, honey. You are not a special person. Falling in love with an outspoken woman is a lesbian ritual, such as dyeing it black at The Dinah or cutting all your hair at least once. You are not the first to experience this holy mind. Throw a stone, and you’ll run into a lesbian who will happily tell you about a time she had an illicit affair with a straight woman. And she’ll show you the scars to prove it. I think you’re setting yourself up for suffering, and I question *why* you feel the need to chase after a woman who claims to be no other woman. I believe a lot of girl crushes stem from our ugly selves. However, I understand that a million different things can come true at the same time and that nothing in this world is black and white, especially sex. Sometimes, even though we have better judgment, we still fall into the error of people with flaws. Sometimes “straight” women aren’t really straight; they just don’t understand their own sexuality yet. Sometimes sex is liquid. Sometimes love is simply love. And sometimes you just have to do something, even when you know you might get hurt. I support the art of taking risks. But I wouldn’t be a good lesbian sister if I didn’t properly warn you of what’s at stake here. You need to be fully informed before making a choice to soak in a straight women’s t-shirt. Those waters are dangerous, and it’s important to be educated before you dip your sweet little lesbian toes in that freezing cold water. Five super important things you NEED to know before you get caught up in a riptide of straight women.1. When someone tells you who they are, believe them.Nine out of 10 texts I get from babies about their interest in straight girls are usually something like this: “Zara, she says she’s straight… but she’s flirting with me hard! When we were drinking the other night, she snuggled into my lap! Apparently, she was attracted to me. ”Read more: How to turn off silent modeGIRL. When someone tells you who they are, believe them. If the word “I’m straight” comes out of a girl’s glossy straight lips, you know, she’s straight. We don’t always flirt with people because we really like them — you know. Sometimes we flirt with people because we’re starved for attention or desperate for a cheap shot of authenticity. Sometimes what we consider “chummy,” another person will interpret as crazy flirting. I’m a celebrity for giving people the wrong ideas. I brush my lashes and spit out sexual innuendos all the time. That’s my personality. If I’m looking at you rudely and constantly making love, welcome to the club, honey. I do that with everyone. Men, women, non-binary kids — no one is safe. The only people I shamelessly flirt with are, ironically, the ones I’m actually attracted to. I freeze around people who I think are hot, like many of us. If she claims to be outspoken, respect that. Chances are she likes the novelty of being noticed by a lesbian but will never sleep with you (let alone date you). This damn thing happens all the time! In fact, the best way to tell if she’s in love with you or is really falling for you… is to back off. Let her take the lead. This leads me to the next point seamlessly.2. The ball is in her yard, not yours. I have one thing to confess: I find it amusing when lesbians try to pressure straight girls to be attracted to them. Toss a coin. How does it feel when a straight guy tries to pressure us into being attracted to him? We feel violated. Hate. Excited. Creeped f*ck out. Just because we’re women doesn’t mean we’re exempt from the macabre. And it’s creepy to follow a girl who claims to not care about your gender. Key point. Even if she’s above you. Respect her sexual identity, just as you would expect to be respected. And if she can’t cope with her attraction to you, even though she’s “heterosexual,” let her come to you. friend? It’s not fun being that girl, believe me. And you’ll never be seen as that girl if you let her chase you. If she tries to kiss you one night after drinking multiple cocktails, pull away and ask her, “Aren’t you straight?” And let her explain herself. Give her the freedom to come to the shocking conclusion that she is attracted to a woman. It’s really important to give people a chance to figure this shit out for themselves without having to linger behind to get it out of them. down the line, this will give you a healthy foundation from which to grow. You won’t have to secretly worry that she’ll dump you for a guy, and she’ll be confident in her true attraction to you because she’s come to that conclusion herself.3. Ask yourself: Why? WHY?! Like I mentioned in the introduction, you have to make sure that your magnetic attraction to this “straight” girl is not rooted in ego. Before you get defensive, I need you to know that I’m not judging you. I was there by myself! It’s a great confidence to feel like a girl who is so irresistibly attracted to you that she realizes that she’s bi or for you. It’s exciting to be someone’s “first,” because you’re new and erotic with someone who’s gone for the first time because they haven’t experienced the girly wonders of girl sex. In addition, many gay women often tell me that they are simply more attracted to “straight women” rather than “gay women.” (If that’s the case, you haven’t met enough women.) Make sure you really like this “straight girl” because she’s attractive and you connect with her on a deep level, not just because you are. want to enhance their ego or simply haven’t come into contact with the countless gay women that exist in this beautiful world. Read more: how to train a horse to lie down4. Make sure you’ve made peace with your own sexuality. This is super, super, super, SUPER important. Make sure you’re 1,000% comfortable with your sexual identity — or avoid it. Fast If you’re still harboring shame about your gender identity, falling for a “straight” girl will be a big step backwards. You’ll have to deal with her shame and uncertainty, which can reactivate those feelings in you if you’re not super well yet. If she messes with your head by flirting with you recklessly and you still feel insecure about being a troll, this kind of toxic gameplay will hurt you badly. . Right now, you need to be around women who are confident about your homosexuality — women who lift you up and remind you that there’s nothing to be ashamed of, only something to be proud of. . with weirdness, stop immediately. Orders of lesbian sister.5. Understand that no matter what: It will be a ~big~ job. Suppose she comes to you and confesses her strong attraction to you. She wants to try. She wants to date. She’s ready to see where this goes. That’s great, but the trouble won’t end just because she’s sexually awakened. It is merely “step one” of the 12 glorious steps of stepping out. You’ll have to hold her hand when she tells her family she’s weird; you will have to make her comfortable expressing lesbian feelings openly; You will have to deal with her ex-boyfriends going on a rampage and possibly sending you hateful Instagram messages. You’ll have to teach her to say no to a woman (or show her my how-to video below) This is all the stuff you’ve probably gone through and it’s not easy is it? Be prepared to go through all of this again. And you can’t, I repeat, can’t resent her for struggling with these complex, new-found feelings. Admitting to yourself that your sexuality isn’t as dry and dry as you’ve thought your whole life is. If you are not willing to be patient and loving, then this great job is not for you. And that’s okay. That’s not for me either. The worst thing that happens is that you break your heart. And sometimes heartbreak is just what we need when we get too comfortable in our mundane lives. It opens us up and lets light in. Good luck, darling. And message me all your problems. Your big girl lez is here for you. For life.Read more: how to make a Rc drift car